Frequently Asked Questions

• What's the difference between this dating site and all the others?

Well firstly, this is not a dting site.

There is no doubt dating sites have worked for many with lots of successes but they do have their limitations and for many of us they simply have not worked. We believe it's only actually when people meet that they can really find out about each other. So we're trying to be something different, we're more of a singles club or meetup group. Using our forum we have created a friendly community where like minded people can get together to organise social events for themselves wthout the pressure associated with dating sites.

• What sort of events do you have in mind?

Well we've had just about a years experience now and we've learned a lot. Initially we were just trying to create a large group of single friends and to take it from there. The emphasis was simply on creating a fun, friendly and safe environment.

We didn't quite know what everyone would want to do and we discussed various ideas such as ten pin bowling, trips to the theatre and golfing days. Where we've got to though you can see from the list of events we've actually managed. The skittles evenings are very popular as is the walking. Both of these allow people to move around and get to know others in the group easily.

What we do next is up to you and the other members but already this year it looks as though walking and music is high on the list.

• I don't know anyone - still sounds a little scary

We think we've worked this out. If you tell us you're coming to an event we will give you a mobile phone number to call when you arrive. One of us will come out to meet you, introduce you to other members and we'll make sure you're not left alone.

• How much does it cost to join?

It costs nothing to join and there are no other charges, it is completely free and there is no intention to make any charges. The site is currently sponsored by Knightsbridge Kitchens.

• How do I get involved?

Very simple. Join the forum, join in the discussion and come along to one of the meetings.

• Rules

There aren't a lot. You have to be single and the target age group is over 45 (only because we all are). Obviously people will get together and it has happened already, so the second rule is if you were single when you joined, we don't want to lose you as a friend, so you're welcome to stay as a member. The third rule is very simple - you must be nice!