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For whatever reason you find yourself single the result is often the same. We know how lonely life can be, how depressing it is when all your friends seem to be in relationships, when, everywhere you go, people are together. We have all wondered if the other half of our adult life is to be spent alone.

When we think we must do something about it, we look at the options:

• An ad. in the paper --- Can be quite scary.
• A singles bar --- Some have never walked into a bar alone in their lives!
• A dating agency --- Not for everyone.

Maybe you are not looking for a new partner. You simply want a new circle of friends in a similar situation to yourself. If this is the case then none of the above would be of any use.

Whichever choice you make, you feel can’t tell anyone because they wouldn’t understand and maybe think you are a bit ‘sad’. You think you are the only person who feels like this.

We know you are not. In our experience, a growing number of people within our age range find themselves on their own for one reason or another.

What we endeavour to do is give you the opportunity to re-start your life with a friendly, welcoming group of people who just want to have fun.

We want people to feel comfortable and safe. No longer the ‘odd one out’ but part of a group of like-minded people who have all ‘been there’.

Most importantly, we hope to encourage you away from the television, meet people, kick-start your life and find happiness.

New friends of both sexes, a pleasant social life and a “reason for being” are what we offer. You may take comfort in the knowledge that the vast majority of people in 45nSingle have experienced traumatic situations, some probably equal to yours.

When we get together, our main objective is to have fun but we are always ready to listen if you are feeling low. No one will judge you because we know how you’re feeling.

45nsingle  generates a warm and friendly atmosphere ideal for meeting people, and this is a perfect way to re-start your social life.

Frequently Asked Questions

• What's the difference between this dating site and all the others?

Our emphasis is on socialising. Using our forum we have created a friendly community where like minded people can get together without the pressure associated with dating sites.

• Singles events

Everything from simple get togethers and walks through to weekends away. Our most popular events are the Meetups and the skittles evening but it’s really all about meeting people and having fun whatever the event.

• I don't know anyone - still sounds a little scary

We have occasional introduction evenings for new members. If you are

          coming to  an event for the first time we can arrange for someone to be  at an

          event early,  meet you outside or even beforehand. We can provide  you with a

          mobile number  to call as you arrive, whatever makes you feel  comfortable.

At Meetups, some of us will wear yellow Smiley badges so you will be able             recognise at least one of us when you enter the room.

• Actually I have a great social life and I’m just looking for a partner

45nsingle is just one of the tools you can use to find a partner. We also run singles             meetups especially for those people who are only interested in finding a partner -             click here http://www.meetup.com/Gloucestershire-singles-30-40-50/messages/boards/

• How much does it cost to join?

Your first two months with 45nSingle are free thereafter 4.99 per month.

To be fair to all members previous members must be fully paid up to attend events.,  

45nsingle is owned and sponsored by Knightsbridge Kitchens.

• How do I get involved?

Very simple. Join the forum, join in the discussion and come along to one of the meetings.

• Rules

You have to be single. The target age group is 40s and 50s only because we almost all are. Our youngest member is in their 30s and we have a few around 65. Obviously people will get together and it has happened already, so the second rule, we don't want to lose you as a friend, so if you do find a partner you're welcome to stay as a member.

The third rule is very simple - you must be nice!  

We do not tolerate racism, sexism, discrimination or violence.

About us

There's no committee, no organisation, no chairman, no elections, no membership secretary, no anything other than forum moderators.

Events are organised by members for members and yes you are not only welcome to organise something but are encouraged to.